{"id":3355,"date":"2023-04-28T12:40:37","date_gmt":"2023-04-28T12:40:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debatrix.com\/en\/?p=3355"},"modified":"2023-05-01T10:25:09","modified_gmt":"2023-05-01T10:25:09","slug":"why-do-people-often-repeat-themselves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debatrix.com\/en\/2023\/04\/28\/why-do-people-often-repeat-themselves\/","title":{"rendered":"Why do people often repeat themselves?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id='av_section_1'  class='avia-section alternate_color avia-section-default avia-no-border-styling  avia-bg-style-scroll  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_section  avia-builder-el-first  intro  container_wrap sidebar_right' style=' '  ><div class='container' ><main  role=\"main\" itemprop=\"mainContentOfPage\"  class='template-page content  av-content-small alpha units'><div class='post-entry post-entry-type-page post-entry-3355'><div class='entry-content-wrapper clearfix'>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_three_fourth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding first  avia-builder-el-1  avia-builder-el-no-sibling  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><p><div  style='padding-bottom:10px; ' class='av-special-heading av-special-heading-h1  blockquote modern-quote  avia-builder-el-2  el_before_av_hr  avia-builder-el-first  '><h1 class='av-special-heading-tag '  itemprop=\"headline\"  >Why do people often repeat themselves? <\/h1><div class='special-heading-border'><div class='special-heading-inner-border' ><\/div><\/div><\/div><br \/>\n<div  style='height:1px; margin-top:-60px'  class='hr hr-invisible   avia-builder-el-3  el_after_av_heading  avia-builder-el-last '><span class='hr-inner ' ><span class='hr-inner-style'><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/main><!-- close content main element --><\/div><div class='av-extra-border-element border-extra-diagonal  '><div class='av-extra-border-outer'><div class='av-extra-border-inner' ><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id='av_section_2'  class='avia-section main_color avia-section-default avia-no-border-styling  avia-bg-style-scroll  avia-builder-el-4  el_after_av_section  el_before_av_section   container_wrap sidebar_right' style=' '  ><div class='container' ><div class='template-page content  av-content-small alpha units'><div class='post-entry post-entry-type-page post-entry-3355'><div class='entry-content-wrapper clearfix'>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_two_third  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding first  avia-builder-el-5  avia-builder-el-no-sibling  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><p><div  style='height:1px; margin-top:-20px'  class='hr hr-invisible   avia-builder-el-6  el_before_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-first '><span class='hr-inner ' ><span class='hr-inner-style'><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '  style='font-size:16px; '  itemprop=\"text\" ><p><strong>Restlessly shifiting in your seat, you wonder why he is repeating himself again. Sounds familiar? Consider this, sometimes people repeat themselves because they haven&#8217;t received the response they expected from you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n<section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><p>It could be as simple as a nod to show you&#8217;re still following along, or they may be seeking your understanding or assistance in finding a solution. 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